Simply figuring it out.

Something interesting happened to me last week. On an otherwise routine commute.

I left the gym and headed towards the subway to go to therapy. Outside the F train were about 60 people, all standing there.

Why is this massive herd of cattle hanging out here? There a walking tour or something

Worse. The train was down. And 60 people were outside, standing in the cold, all doing the same one thing: staring at their phones, desperately trying to book an Uber, Lyft or some other car-sharing transportation savior.

But what I didn’t see were people walking away from the station. Or looking at Google Maps to see where the closest train station was.

Instead, in an unpredictable moment of inconvenience, panic sets in and the gut reaction is to have someone else save us, rather than figure it out on our own.

I knew another way to get to therapy. It was out of the way, but 10min away by foot was another train that’d take me into Manhattan. My gut reaction wasn’t this route though – my gut was to open Uber / Lyft as well because I was in a bind.

Next time you’re in a jam or lost, do you have the ‘old school’ wherewithal to ‘figure it out’ on your own, or do you need someone (a driver, for example) to come rescue you.

There was something very confidence boosting about having ‘figured it out’ on my own. I hope others can do the same.

A funny thing happened…

I went to therapy tonight. On the subway back, I didn’t take my phone out. Once. 45 MINUTES.

A woman sat down next to me. She had the same LL Bean camo tote bag that I gave my girlfriend. We had a conversation about it.

Chances of me saying something had I had my phone out, aimlessly browsing a bunch of bullshit, are about zero.

Moral of the story? Put your goddamn phone away sometimes. I legitimately feel like a happier human after doing so.

Then watch THIS.